Chatting with Charity ~ 18

Sometimes life is HARD!

Good morning!  Today, I want to talk about one of the jobs of being a wife and mother that I am not always good at!  Our life lately has been hard.  You know what I mean?  Nothing awful has happened to us but life has been filled with disappointments, and frustrations, and people around us, close to us, are suffering with deep hurts and loses.  We have been feeling the weight of this for at least a full two months and we know there are more hard things coming....a dear friend moving away.  The weight of all of this has slowly changed the mood in our home, we are not as light hearted and joyful as normal.  I was praying about how I could help get us back to that place and that is when God started reminding me to be a fun wife and momma!  This is not something that comes naturally to me, I like quiet and order but I knew it was my job!  I am well aware that as wives and mothers we have great power over the mood of our homes....if momma ain't happy ain't nobody happy!  This week I have on purpose set aside time to be fun.  I even used our kitchen chalkboard to write a fun message on!  I am happy to report, It has worked!  We are not without cares, they are all still there, but we are having fun and finding joy in our day to day life!

Has your family recently gone through anything like this?  What did you do to lighten the mood?  Or if you are a fun mom, what are some of your favorite fun things you do for your family?

Charity

Good Morning!  I am not sure about you guys but I have to tell you that I am feeling my age!  All this weeding and such in the garden has me sore from hat to stake! I was so thankful when my friend Samantha brought over some Deep Blue essential oil!  It has helped a ton and I have to say I am smelling much fresher too! You can get your Deep Blue from Samantha, just email her at kevinswife@gmail.com.  And she has promised to include a special surprise in every order! Have a great weekend!

Love, 

Clarence, The Scarecrow

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Father's Day Gift

Sentimental Penny Keychain

Sentimental Penny Key Chain

This keychain makes a great sentimental gift for all the men in your life. Find pennies with your sentimental years (birth of your kids, when you got married, etc.…).  Then, gather all the other supplies and get busy making yours.

 

 

Supply List

• Pennies with sentimental years 
• Hammer 
• Nails 
• Scrap block of wood 
• 6mm or larger jump ring 
• Keychain jump ring 
• Brillo Pad 

Use the Brillo pad to clean the pennies.

Grab a handful of small nails, a hammer and a scrap block of wood and hammer a hole into each of your pennies.

If you have trouble getting the nail all the way through, flip the penny over and hammer from that side.

This not hard but you will bend a few nails, just be prepared with extra nails.

Use a small jump ring to go through the pennies and then attach to the keychain.

This makes a great gift for the men in your life!!

Charity

Our Junk. Your Trunk.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Good Saturday Morning!!!!

I have been up since before the rooster crowed dreaming about redoing the barn this winter.  Last week I got in touch with my friend Coleen about some new furniture.  She is a pro at making vintage and antique pieces look new and modern.  I pretty much LOVE every single piece that she does.  I am thinking one of these pieces would make a great addition to the barn...now I just need to decide if I want to stay more traditional or go fun and modern. Hmmm!  Well, the good news is I will be stuck here for a few more months and have plenty of time to think about it.  If you need a new piece of furniture for your barn...I mean home, please get in touch with my friend Coleen and see what she has in stock!  You can find her on Facebook at Our Junk. Your Trunk.​ and Instagram @ourjunk.yourtrunk

Love,
Clarence, The Scarecrow

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Good morning! 

Do you ever struggle with what to get the person who has everything???
I recently had this struggle! My precious grandmother was about to turn 80 and I had NO IDEA what to get her!  She has everything she needs and is downsizing what she has constantly.  I love my grandmother deeply and I wanted to mark this occasion with a meaningful gift, one she would treasure.  That is when the idea came to me... I would make her a memory jar.  It was a simple project to make.  I gathered a large jar, scrapbook paper, scissors, and a print out of what I wanted on the jar made from vinyl.  If you do not have a vinyl machine you could easily do this with stickers from the craft store.  I put the words on the front of the jar and cut the paper into strips.  Then we got busy writing our favorite memories with my grandmother and rolled them up and put them inside of the jar.  By the time we were finished the jar was full.  I have to tell you that this gift was to her exactly what I wanted it to be!  After she opened the gift she gave me this great piece of advice, when you are young you need to gather all the memories that you can so that when you are old you can sit and "unpack" them!   Now, I have a new memory to add to the jar!

 

 

This is her telling me about collecting memories.

 

 

Charity

 

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Hi everyone!  Today I am excited to share one of my family's favorite weeknight dinners.  It is super fast and let's be honest most weeknights we need FAST!

Ingredients
 1   cup asparagus chopped
 1   pound pasta 
 1/4   cup extra-virgin olive oil 
 4    cloves garlic, minced 
 1/2   cup left over pasta cooking water 
 1/2   teaspoon red pepper flakes 
 1 1/4   teaspoons salt 
1/2 cup parmesan cheese

Directions
1.Cook the pasta according to the package directions. Reserve 1/2 cup of the cooking water and drain.
2.Heat the oil in a large saucepan over medium heat. Add the garlic and asparagus and heat through, stirring so it doesn't burn.
3.Add the pasta water, red pepper, salt, and bring to a boil. Toss with the cooked pasta.
Serve with a salad and some yummy bread and you have a wonderful and easy weeknight dinner
4.Sprinkle top with cheese

Serve with salad and some yummy bread and you have an easy, fast weeknight dinner!

Chatting with Charity ~ 14

 

Good Morning!

 

Today, I am excited to share with you a book that I discovered several years ago.  The book is called Personality Plus, by Florence Littauer

 

 

 

This book is about the study of temperaments and places everyone's temperament into one of four categories.   Each of the temperament categories has strengths and weaknesses and these are normally where conflict with others happen.  Normally, we expect that what is easy or obvious to us should also be to everyone else and that is where hurt feelings and disappointment often happen.  The enemy would love for this to rip apart relationships but the cool thing is God means for our strengths to cover others weaknesses.  What a beautiful vision of the body of Christ that is, that your strength can cover my weakness and my strength can cover yours.  I wonder what the world would think if they could see the church living this out regularly?  Also, what if I stopped saying that is just the way I am with my weaknesses and actually took ownership of them and started to die to myself and allow God to live through me more.  WOW!  That is a change that I am sure my family and those close to me would like. 

 

For those of you wondering...I am a Choleric and I my weaknesses are: anger, revenge, opinionated, insensitive, unemotional, impatient, unsympathetic, sarcastic, cruel, domineering, inconsiderate, unforgiving, manipulative, bored with details, demanding, intolerant of errors.  Whew, for sure I am not naturally warm and fuzzy!

 

Have you ever read this book or others about temperaments?

What is yours?

 

 

Charity 

 

Photo Prints

I have exciting news!

The Heartfelt Home Shop is now offering Photo Prints for framing.

 

I have a great LOVE for words and want my home filled with words that point those in it to God!

These prints are a great way for me and you to do just that and in a way that doesn't break the bank, BONUS.

5x7 - $8

8x10-$10

 

You can purchase them here.

Here is a sample of the designs we have to offer and each design comes in multiple colors to choose from.
 

I hope you love these as much as I do.
Also, if you are local you can pick them up at Woodstock Market.

Charity

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Good Morning! Who is happy to see the sun shining? I know that I am!

Today, I want to personally invite you to come to The Women's Conference. You can click this link to find out more information http://johnnyhuntwomensconference.com/...
I know in church as BIG as ours it is easy to get lost and feel like you haven't made a deep connection with other women. Please, do not let that stop you from coming. I will be there and easy to find, I will be at my booth The Heartfelt Home. If you come alone, find me and we will sit together and get to know one another. Or step out of your comfort zone and start inviting ladies to come with you. It would be a great way to invite your neighbor or coworker to church!

I hope to see you there!

Who has already has there ticket?

 

Cha Cha

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Today, I want to encourage you to walk in the full armor of God and to help you remember I have this cool printable. Feel free to print and frame.

 

Cha Cha

Chatting with Charity ~ 11

 

Love thy Neighbor

 Confess Your Sins and Pray for One
Another...

 

Our Sunday school class just finished studying the book of James. I love the book of James and have studied it often but this time one verse stood out to me

Therefore, confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another so that you may be healed. The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much. James 5:16

One morning after class I was sitting in my quiet time and felt God convicting me of something. Recently, I stepped out in faith and started the next phase of my business. I knew that it was God's call and my husband and I had prayed and were 100% in agreement before I made the decision. That morning I knew I had been walking in sin and not trusting God fully with the financial side of the decision, I was filled with fear often. I prayed and confessed this sin to God. Later that day I was headed to my friend Kelly's house for lunch. The whole way to her house the verse from James kept running through my head. I knew when I got to her house I need to confess my sins to her and have her pray for me. I got to her house and almost immediately told her what I was going through and asked her to pray for me. It was not easy to admit in the beginning but the more words I said the easier it got. She then confessed some fears that she was having and we started praying for each other. Since that day we have held each other up in prayer and each walked in greater freedom from our fears. Today, I want to encourage you to Love Thy Neighbor by being open and sharing...even the hard stuff, love them enough to trust them. I believe when we are open it gives others the confidence to be open with us. I would have never had the opportunity to come beside her in prayer if I had not first been open and vulnerable. Also, if you do not have a friend that you feel safe to do this with, I encourage you to pray for one and start being the friend that you desire!

 

Cha Cha

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Good Morning! I hope you are loving the beautiful spring weather. I am and it has me in the mood for some spring cleaning. I made some cute printables for you and me to help get us started. You can print off the sample or print the blank one and fill it out yourself. HAPPY SPRING cleaning!

 

Cha Cha

Chatting with Charity ~ 9

 

 Bacon Wrapped Pork Tenderloin

 

Last week I had the great pleasure of taking one of my favorite girls dinner. When I was a youth leader she was one of my students and our regular babysitter and quickly became part of our family! ...
Well...she decided to grow up a few years ago and get married and you know how the story goes,
first comes love,
then comes married,
then comes Jamie pushing a baby carriage!
Last week she had the cutest, most squishy baby boy. I knew I needed some extra baby time so I quickly signed up to bring them dinner. I made one of my favorite "company worthy but weeknight easy" recipes, Bacon Wrapped Pork Tenderloin

Here is what you will need to make it too:

1 pork tenderloin
salt and pepper
4-5 strips of bacon

Preheat oven to 425* , sprinkle tenderloin with salt and pepper, wrap bacon around-covering completely, place on a lightly greased rack in a roasting pan. Bake for 30 min - or until internal temperature is 160, broil until bacon is crispy, let rest for 10 minutes, serve and enjoy

 

Cha Cha